Ebook Here She Comes! The Experienced ManÂ’s Sex Guide to Deeply Understanding His Woman Driving Her Crazy with Desire Giving Her Ever Stronger Orgasms Rod Govea Lu Abreu 9788564329027 Books

Product details Paperback 270 pages Publisher pum! Press (May 1, 2011) Language English ISBN-10 8564329026

Here She Comes! The Experienced ManÂ’s Sex Guide to Deeply Understanding His Woman Driving Her Crazy with Desire Giving Her Ever Stronger Orgasms Rod Govea Lu Abreu 9788564329027 Books Reviews

• This book is really complete, insightful and...useful! Really, I've read a lot of sex books, and this one rocks! If I could only have one, this would be it. I actually learned some very important stuff, like penetration techniques and psychology on women and sex--and I am no newbie! I am giving out copies of this book to my closest friends (as long as they keep it a secret.)
  
  However, it's not a perfect book I felt chapters 1,2 and 3 to be too slow, for instance, and some chapters were not up to par. But there is so much important stuff in the rest of the book, that it is definitely a 5-star.
  As there are no detailed reviews yet, here it goes In detail, the book has 17 chapters and its broadly divided in 4 parts
  
  Chapters 1-5
  The author presents us his views on sex very biologically/evolutionary minded, but not basic or reductionist. Actually, he makes a good point in showing that just because it is biological-driven, that does not mean sex in humans is simple--quite the opposite. He goes in detail into his view of the female sexual instinct, unconscious vs conscious. I felt the most important addition was his ideas on the female-female competition and how that affects us men and his views on dominance in humans, very original and giving great insights that actually changed my view on the sexual interaction.
  
  Chapters 6-9
  This is when the book gets really good. It presents techniques or touch, oral sex, fingering, penetration and anal sex. The oral sex and fingering parts are mostly common knowledge, that you can find in other books (if you are into sex books).
  Then he presents the different penetration movements and that is one of the pearls in this book. There are some funny pics and exercices, I thought they were a bit ridiculous but I tried them and I actually improved a lot! He goes into details about how and when to use power and that stuff worked wonders!!!!! I tried it on a girl I started going out with, and I was a bit afraid, but she just went wild, so I kept on going. She went totally wild!!! Screaming and stuff, like I had pressed a "Go wild!" button.
  The anal sex part is not impressive in terms of techniques, but is very good at mentioning a lot of things not to do. It's mostly about how to make it exciting for the girl and how to make her try it and enjoy it. I actually laughed when I read the stuff, it sounds smart and I can see it will work. Haven't tried it yet, though.
  
  Chapters 10-11
  These chapters are on how to adapt. How to adapt the techniques to different women and how to adapt your attitude to the woman's situation (how to read her). All the stuff here is important, and there are some very important tips. I actually understand women better now. But I missed a chapter on "how to adapt the book to different readers, to different men". The author never mentions that throughout the book.
  
  Chapters 12-15
  This is where hell breaks loose. It's the most advanced part of the book! The chapter on "how to talk in bed" is just awesome. The author kind of makes a general theory on how to talk sex. It's not simple advices like "say this and that" that make the reader look dorky saying things in the total wrong way and context. It's a general theory on sexual communication. It basically reduces sexual communication to 4 feelings (admiration, tenderness, horniness and dominance) and then explains how to put the four together. Man, I had talked dirty since my teenager years, but this time was different. During the wild sex, I started using this 4 feelings thing and the girl just came, on the spot--and afterwards, she just wanted to kiss me more and more! F... I didn't know it was this easy!
  Then come some weird chapters on fantasy telling and hypnosis. I haven't tried any of them yet. It's really advanced stuff, and I think it is more for people who are already in relationships or at least going steady, which is not me. But I'm definitely going to try it in the future!
  
  Chapters 16-17
  These are just "covering all the bases chapters" and pretty useless. Basically the author covers topics he didn't mentioned in the book up to point, like creating special evenings, BDSM and how to be sensual. It's just an apetizer, getting the ideas across, but not getting into details or giving any new unpublished information. The part on being sensual is also not that relevant, if you are already a guy having plenty of success with women.
  
  Summing up
  If you are a man that loves to see women horny and coming, this is the book!
• I received this book just four days ago, and I have not yet read it all; still, I have something to tell about this book, a curious little story, that seems to me more relevant that an analysis of it.
  
  A friend not used to shopping via web asked me to buy this book for her; she was so excited about it that I bought one for myself as well.
  When I got it, I started "consulting" the book, reading something here and there (this is what I usually do with books that are not novels). I was immediately caught by the amazing insight of human mind that was everywhere. Some chapters, for instance 11 or 12, literally let me out of breath.
  Next night, my wife gave me wonderful and enthusiastic sex; I took note of the day, I though "this must be the peak of her sexual period". The following day she was lovely, happy; "good sex has good consequences" I though. In the same day I noted that I had become unusually popular among my feminine colleagues. Later, we were out shopping and in every shop the employees have been incredibly nice to me, talking a lot, being seductive. My non-jealous wife laughs a lot with that. I was feeling as if I had acquired a strange and magical power that made women feel irresistibly attracted to me, and feel happy by me. Then, suddenly, I realized where that power had come from from the book! It was the knowledge about women that I obtained from the book that had changed the way I communicate with them.
  All this happened without any intention of applying this or that technique; it was just the consequence of my increased knowledge and understanding of women, and of the self-confidence that comes with it.
  And I am just starting the book, there is a lot more in it!!!
  I would very much like to know if the same has happened to the other readers of this book.
• I liked this book on several levels. The psychological part on what women want was interesting and possibly true for many women but i don't feel for all. The rest of the book had many good ideas for attracting and keeping your woman happily in love with you. Many of the ideas help spark ideas, especially for long term and possibly bored couples. All in all I felt this book presented very good and worthwhile ideas.
• Advanced?
  This author has a PhD and references David Shade?
  *dubious*
  
  This material is dated and all this and more is available online. A guide on how to do an internet search would be more helpful.
• This book is great! Shines light on a few things I did not know. If half the guys took his advise there sex lives whoild be stuff of ledgen. I am actully going to start giving the book for gifts. Very easy to read!
• This book taught me some new stuff, How to's and sensitive spots I didn't know.
  
  Some things are a little out there, but???
• For many guys I think the subconscious thought framework involving King and Queen archetypes will ring true. Ambitious with respect to reach in including hypnotism and the like, but well written even to the point of raising libido.
• Being a writer on the topic, Oral Sex She'll Never Forget 50 Positions and Techniques That Will Make Her Orgasm Like She Never Has Before, I find myself reading a lot of what is already out there. Here She Comes! gives information, including psychology and technique, not found in most sex books. This book is a must for any advanced practitioner who truly wants to understand and please his woman in profound ways.